How can let the child be joyful

How can let the child be frequently joyful? First, the parents want to pay attention train the child to the joyful experience. In each minor matter, the parents all may inquire the child the feeling, is happy, why. For instance exits the time 候问 child which plays: "You like playing? Happy?" Also may ask that, "You in are together happy with mother?" The parents also want frequently to tell own experience the child, if "you can own put on clothes, I am very happy." Next, is joyful needs to have the limit. Above the middle-aged friends all had such experience, the before child how much matter have not enjoyed, but crossed very much joyfully What does the present child want to have what, always is why unhappy? The reason lay in, had hoped very long only then obtained the thing general meeting was joyful exceptionally, but easily obtained thing unconsciously preciously. When we satisfy child's each request by might and main, should realize this to deprive the child to enjoy the joyful right in fact The child through own diligently completes afterwards joyfully with to satisfy is the parents takes care of everything completes cannot give. Third, any is joyful all cannot harm other people's benefit. Some parents so long as child happy, own make anything to be allowed, the child take hits the adult or the destruction thing as is happy. Does this the result, after causes the child to grow up did not understand respects the other people. The child if appears this kind of behavior, should firmly stop, cannot compromise, simultaneously tells him (her), the parents very much are angry regarding this, everybody is not sure to like him (she). Fourth, must respect the child the wish. Some matters adult thought does not have the meaning, the child actually very much likes, the adult thought the child is sure to like the thing, the child obtained certainly has not been actually happy. Some parents buy the very expensive toy to the child, the child actually rather play the water, play the mud. Hide-and-seek. Crosses each family. Therefore, we always do not impose own likes and dislikes on the child, must let the matter which the child is them to like doing. For the child a joyful childhood, is each parents' responsibility, also is each parents may achieve